Instinct | Helen Hou-Sandí

Last night, as we took the train back from a friend’s birthday outing, a young man got on the train who instantly put me on alert. For a while, I tried to figure out what it was – his oddly clenched jaw, the sly look of his narrowed eyes (or were those just his eyes?),…

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This massive Twitter response shows the awful discrimination in the music industry – Vox

Early Tuesday morning, music journalist and Pitchfork senior editor Jessica Hopper asked for stories from “women and other marginalized folks” on inequality they might have experienced in the music or journalism industries.   Gals/other marginalized folks: what was your 1st brush (in music industry, journalism, scene) w/ idea that you didn’t “count”? — Jessica Hopper…

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Miley Cyrus on Tits

For about six minutes last night, Miley Cyrus talked to Jimmy Kimmel about tits—having them, covering them, aging with them. It was a really good interview. Some choice quotes: “My dad’s cool, because I’m sure he’d maybe rather me not have my tits out all the time, but he’d rather me have my tits out…

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Email from a Married, Female Ashley Madison User

Ever since I wrote on Thursday about the Ashley Madison hack and resulting reactions and consequences, I’ve heard from dozens of people who used the site. They offer a remarkably wide range of reasons for having done so. I’m posting below one email I received that I find particularly illuminating, which I very lightly edited to correct a few…

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